Last week I began sharing what 40 years of marriage has looked like for us, one decade at a time. Today, we move into years 11–20. If I had to describe this stage in one word, it would be BUSY. These are the years when life feels full in every direction. Expenses peak. Activities multiply.… Continue reading The 4 Stages of 40 Years of Marriage (Years 11–20)
Do our words really have power?
As a person of faith, I have a quiet time every day in which I journal the reading of the day. The Book of Proverbs is one of my favorite books to journal about. It is full of wisdom and practical steps. For example, Proverbs 15:4 says, “The tongue that brings healing is a tree… Continue reading Do our words really have power?
The 4 Stages of 40 Years of Marriage (Part 1)
Arturo and I shared a Valentine’s message at the church of dear pastor friends. We divided our 40 years of marriage into four stages — one decade at a time. Over the next four weeks, I’ll share each stage. If you’re married or in a long-term relationship, I’ll likely touch on the season you’re living… Continue reading The 4 Stages of 40 Years of Marriage (Part 1)
Is it true that I must fail so you can win?
In Superman III, Ross Webster is asked why he wants to destroy the opposition when he already has so much. His answer: “It is not enough that I succeed—everyone else must fail.” That line stuck with me when I first heard it in 1983. I didn’t have language for it then, but today we recognize… Continue reading Is it true that I must fail so you can win?
YOU CAN HOMESCHOOL EVEN IF YOU’RE NOT A TEACHER
Have you thought about homeschooling your children but don’t think you can do it? I had the opportunity to homeschool our 6 children for 25 years, and I can tell you there are many misconceptions that prevent people from homeschooling their kids when they really want to. Once, I had a conversation with a mother… Continue reading YOU CAN HOMESCHOOL EVEN IF YOU’RE NOT A TEACHER
Don’t confuse activity with accomplishment.
I am a student of time; mostly because I have a real fear of wasting it. For as long as I can remember, I have given the choices in front of me too much thought in order to make the best decision that will waste the least amount of time. So when I started reading… Continue reading Don’t confuse activity with accomplishment.
When My Dad Bought a House
My dad was born in Cerritos, San Luis Potosí, a small town where his single mother raised six children. He left school early to work and help support the family. From the stories he told us growing up, two things were always clear: he never wanted to work for someone else, and whatever business he… Continue reading When My Dad Bought a House
The One Habit Your Future Self Will Thank You For
The other day I heard a definition of discipline that blew my mind. “Discipline is prioritizing the needs of your future self over your present self.” ~Chase Hughes What a great definition! The reason I require any discipline at all is because there’s nothing in it for my present self. Whether it be exercise, food… Continue reading The One Habit Your Future Self Will Thank You For
We do best what only we can do
I remember preparing for a party years ago, rushing around the house trying to finish a dozen things at once. My kids were still home then, and one of my teenage sons asked how he could help. I handed him a small task because it was what came to mind in the moment. But before… Continue reading We do best what only we can do
When to Take (and Not Take) Advice
One of the most valuable skills we can develop as adults isn’t just giving advice—it’s learning when to take it and when to leave it behind. We live in a world full of opinions. From social media to family gatherings, it seems everyone has something to say about how you should live, parent, spend, or… Continue reading When to Take (and Not Take) Advice